I am a lucky girl. Every weekend, J gets up early and takes E for a little daddy-daughter time so mama can sleep in and relax. They always have lots of fun together. They take Ralph for walks, they go out to brunch, and sometimes they go to Gymboree. I used to feel like I had to get her ready for these excursions, probably because I'm so used to doing it every day that if I don't do it I feel like I've forgotten something. But J is more than capable of handling the entire production. In fact, he takes particular pride in choosing her outfits. I have to say that in general, he is more concerned about what she wears than I am. Some days I just keep her in her pyjamas all day, but not her da-da. Every day is a new opportunity to look fabulous!